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Review
written by a reader from Deerfield Beach, Florida, USA on www.amazon.com
It is my great
privilege and honour to introduce THE best book on a subject of
procrastination, something I never would have thought I would
have the opportunity to do on Amazon.com. The book introduces
the model of the Action Spiral and is filled with many great ideas.
The author is a therapist, and her insight into procrastination
is thorough, written in a charming way. I have read other books
on the subject and found this one the most helpful book of all,
a classic that will remain in my book collection.
Review
written by Geoff Pelham - BACP accredited counsellor
How often have you despaired
in supervision, over the client student or supervisee you wish
would "just get on with it"? This book provides a new
and useful diagnostic tool to help identify where and how one
has become struck, and a wealth of strategies to overcome entrenched
patterns of procrastination. Perry's open and conversational style
puts Isn't It About Time? in the same genre as Families
and How to Survive Them (Skinner and Cleese), in that it conveys
complex concepts accessibly, and should appeal to counsellors,
student support services and the self-help market.
Procrastination is a frustrating
habit both for the person concerned and those around them, including
counsellors, whose challenge remains to stay alongside and not
enter the complexities of the struggle. The habit may arise from
the absence of crucial developmental "permissions" from
our early care-givers, or later, following trauma. As a life-stratergy,
procrastination undermines self-confidence, the ability to be
effective thus create satisfaction, and can lead to depression
and anxiety. It is powerfully linked to the ability to trust oneself,
or not. If someone else broke promises to us, as we do when we
continually put things off, who wouldn't become cynical?
This point appealed to
Janet, who felt inspired to give up smoking, a long term goal.
Two months later, however, when she admitted to having started
again, a clearer pattern emerged, symptomatic of the wider issues
she brought to counselling. Her difficulties lay not in initiating
new projects but in sustaining her original intent, and developing
her capacity to be reliable.
The book provides many
examples of how to strengthen the ability to complete each stage
of any action, immediate or long-term. It made me think, laugh
and get on with this review!
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